I Finally Feel Like I’ve Found Myself At 27

I Finally Feel Like I’ve Found Myself At 27

Usually I dread my birthday. Not because of the age thing (although I am one year closer to 30), but it reminds me of the promises I made myself on my last birthday that I haven’t kept. But this year is different. This year I’m actually pretty excited for my birthday, because at 27 I finally feel like I’ve found myself.

Just as people make New Year’s resolutions, I usually make birthday promises that I aim to fulfill by the time my next birthday comes along. But just like New Year’s resolutions, after a few months I forget all about them until my birthday comes creeping up again and I realise I’m nowhere near to fulfilling them. But for the first time in my life, I feel like I completed them.

My promises? One; to be the BEST version of myself and two; to be happy. They’re nothing too exciting, but they are two things I’ve been really focusing on. I feel like at 27 I’ve finally achieved these and it’s been down to a mixture of these three things…

Building Up My Confidence
If you’re an avid reader you’ll know that lately I’ve been on a style journey. Transforming my wardrobe with Helenlee Loves and learning about my style code has been THE BEST thing I’ve ever done. It’s amazing how a change of clothes can change your confidence. Before learning about my style code I felt like a frump who hated looking at myself in the mirror. I wasn’t confident in my clothes and every outfit would just drag me down. Now, I understand what clothes complement my complexion and enhance my figure. For the first time in my life I feel AMAZING in my clothes and I can’t wait to embrace my new found confidence and style code now that I’m 27!

Learning To Love My Body
Towards the beginning of the year I started to fixate on my weight and not in a healthy way. After gaining a few pounds I became obsessed with calories, steps and exercise. Putting pressure on myself to go to the gym and lose weight just made me unhappy and life is too short to be unhappy. So, I packed in the gym and started doing exercises that made me happy. I really enjoy dancing and running to the point where I don’t even feel like I’m even exercising – it’s so effortless. I dumped my fitbit and I stopped body tracking, and now I just listen to my body. At this moment in time I’ve never been more happier with my body and this was the BIGGEST promise I made to myself.

Bettering My Mental Health
Investing in myself is something I’ve really focused on this year. Taking time out for myself and clearing my mind is super important for my mental health. This is probably the reason I dance so much now, because I have hours away from my phone (you can’t be on your phone in class) and I just focus on me and having fun. In addition to dancing, I also read a lot more now and I take time away from my laptop and social media to enjoy what’s actually happening around me. I feel like I have balance now, which is something I struggled with for years.

Now that I’m 27 and feel like I’ve finally got my shit together, I’m excited for the year ahead. Are there any new promises I’m making to myself this birthday? To continue to focus on myself and ensure my happiness comes before anything else.

Are you feeling like the BEST version of yourself right now? Are you excited for your birthday? Do you make birthday wishes?

Sarah Jayne x

Shop This Look:
Bodysuit LASULA | Trousers LASULA | Shoes LASULA

Clothes c/o Lasula. Images by What Laura Loves.


  1. Sam | North East Family Fun Travel Blog
    October 24, 2018 / 4:46 pm

    Absolutely love this outfit on you – very stylish! Fantastic goals xx Happy Birthday x

  2. October 24, 2018 / 7:44 pm

    Ahhh this is such a lovely post and you look FANTASTIC, those trousers are beautiful on you! Happy Birthday x

  3. Mel
    October 25, 2018 / 6:09 am

    Love your way of setting new goals from one birthday to the next. Photos are lovely, you look fab!

  4. Jess Want
    October 25, 2018 / 8:01 am

    Happy birthday! Great post, I suddenly felt the same when I turned 26 x

  5. CharlotteSamantha
    October 25, 2018 / 8:41 am

    You look amazing and inspired me to love me more, focus on making myself happier.

    CharlotteSamantha x

  6. Laura
    October 25, 2018 / 6:52 pm

    What a beautiful post! Such a good idea to have goals that you set on your birthday as opposed to New Year – I might have to try this! x

  7. Katie
    October 25, 2018 / 7:38 pm

    Totally get the birthday promise/resolution thing, I do it too and all you can ever do is be the best version of you! Gorgeous photos too as always.

    Katie x

  8. Rosie Ireland
    October 27, 2018 / 12:03 pm

    i absolutely love this post!! i am only 26 and am finally starting to feel like i am finally getting to know myself haha so this post reaaaly talks to me!
    you could literally pull off a black bin bag too – so envious!


  9. Alice Spake
    October 28, 2018 / 1:38 pm

    I adore this outfit! The yellow trousers are beautiful xx

  10. B
    October 29, 2018 / 6:27 pm

    First of all these trousers are amazing! You look fab. I definitely know how you feel, just turning 29 I thought I’d feel old somehow but actually I’m probably the most confident I’ve ever been and much more sure of what I want and I love it. x

  11. bethan shufflebotham
    November 18, 2018 / 10:56 pm

    this post is so sweet! your outfit looks amazing on you! I have some similar trousers and this has inspired me to go bolder with my choices!

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